how to be a filial child??

I was wondering actually how a person be a 100% filial child...? anything that she/he needs to do? to say? in every parents heart...the most precious thing is their children...but will they know that...actually in their childrens' heart they are also the precious thing in their life... it is difficult to stay under one roof moreover in the same family...y do parents like to compare their children with others children? i really hate that so much...yea..i agree that others child studies is much more greater than mine..but so what...isit education can show that they r a filial child? actualy what is in their mind? one more thing is...they oftenly remind us..that they love us very much...and we should be glad that we have them cuz..some of the ppl is even worst..i really agreed with wat they say..but they need not to mention it so often..who loves me & who doesn't..i know it very clearly....there is one time that i really cant stand it that i giv them an answer...." then dun u know that ur children is much more filial compare to others child.." then my mama answered...."yes, i agreed...i know it..." So wat is the point for u to mention it that u r the best parents..i know...n both of u are definiely take a important place in my heart...i luv both of u...really...and i know that both of u love me too...
That's y i alwis agree that...action speak louder than words....this is really true...and i really dun like ppl who alwis done something for me..and alwis remind me... for whom who really understand me..they would not think that...i m a forgetful person and pretend that i dunno wat had happened...moreover they are my parents... to be a filial child...not neccessary must 100% listen to parents cuz parents are not 100% right.... parents is to guide us...not to instruct us... i know...althought there is something happen in these two years.... but i already told both of u that..i wont be the same person as he is... y u still wan to compare me with my brother...? oh god!! dun u think this is a bit unfair to me? i definitely different with my brother...i know it..although i cant 100% promise u that i wont change one day....but as the ONE DAY has never comes... i think it is too earlier for u to judge ur daughter... i am trying my best to be ur good n filial daughter as i can... I LOVE U....MOM & DAD...!!!!!